Replying to @funny.brownie its not an excuse, its an explanation. If someone uses bpd as an excuse then the problem is the person themself, not the disorder. we can control our actions, but we cant control how something makes us feel. We are responsible for actions, and not everyone with bpd treats others badly. With help yes this disorder is manageable but without it, it is extremely difficult to the point that its almost impossible depending on how bad yours is. Some people have a better understanding of how to cope or help themselves but not all. And as for therapy, therapy is not for everyone and it doesnt always help every single person who goes into therapy, and the same goes for medication. Everyone is different therefore not everyone will fit the same solution. and i, nor is anyone else, playing the victim just by explaining how a mental disorder affects them. Being kind is free, and has more value than anything that has a price tag. So please, try to be understanding to those who are just trying to get awareness out and dont jump to conclusions that everyone with bpd treats people badly. if this gets more negative comments i will be taking both videos down, im not seeking validation or even justifying the “bad” actions caused by it, i am simply explaining how bpd affects a person. #fyp #fypシ #bpd